Why Men Love Dirty Talk

It should come as no surprise that guys dig dirty talk. But have you ever considered the reasons why this form of sexual play is just so dang arousing to him? Let’s take a dive into why dirty talk drives him wild.

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1. It’s an arousing surprise

If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a sexy charge of excitement. And even if you aren't the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a naughty vixen gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him.

2. He feels like a sex-god

When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you F#$*king love what he’s doing to you. Your unbridled enthusiasm tells him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.

3. Your confidence attracts him

A woman who has the self-confidence to use dirty phrases to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Men are drawn to women who aren't afraid to express themselves sexually. And generally, your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!

4. It shows you are totally in the moment

Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. A quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it shows him that you are. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you serves to validate that he’s pleasing you.

All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive. Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty? Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone.

But don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life. In the program Language of Desire I teach you ways to get over any shyness you may feel and give you over 200 dirty phrases that you can fine-tune to suit your taste level.

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Learning How To Talk Dirty

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Learn How to Talk Dirty To Your Boyfriend!!!

Most women already talk dirty to their boyfriends without even realizing they are doing it. The simple words that come out of your mouth during sex are considered talking dirty. So there is very little to learn what you can learn is how to spice up your dirty talk.

The first and most important rule to learning how to talk dirty to your boyfriend is not over doing it. If you are normally a quite woman who only swears when you slam you hand in the car door then your boyfriend will probably be turned off by vulgar words coming out of your mouth. Keeping that in mind you don't have to talk like a tramp to talk dirty to your boyfriend. Just be yourself after all that's what attracted him to you in the first place.

If you have a dirty thought (who doesn't) when you're not with your boyfriend write it down and create a masterpiece out of it for the next time you and your boyfriend have sex.

Men are very good at talking dirty during sex, take a lesson and pay attention to what he is saying. Then create your own words based on his to talk dirty to him. This will accomplish two things the first and most obvious will be a huge turn on for him and second (which will come later) will be an ego boost for your boyfriend that is once he realized he taught you something!

Another form of dirty talk that women commonly use is the descriptive form. If he is doing something you enjoy but may enjoy it more if it was more to the right or left or a little slower by telling him that you are talking dirty to him.

The best type of talking dirty to your boyfriend is when you can describe to him in detail what you would like him to do, how you would like it done, and how wonderful it feels while he's doing it.

Learning to talk dirty to your boyfriend is so easy chances are you have not even realized you've been doing it all along.

Chris Roberts writes articles focusing mainly on relationships, love and romance. He recommends The Ultimate Talk Dirty Manual. Get everything you need to know and will never run out of ideas by visiting How-To-Talk-Dirty-To-Your-Boyfriend.com

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