It's your boy CW Quickly the Sexpert. Well, I'm not really a sexpert, but I do know how to please my wife. So, as far as she is concerned I'm a sexpert. I wanted you all to see this webinar if you haven't already because it is full of tips you can use if you still have a burning desire to learn how to talk dirty.
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Mr. Quick
P.S. My wife doesn't call me Mr. Quick. She calls me....
The Language Of Desireis written by Felicity Keith an expert guide on this dive into the world of dirty talk, erotic fantasy, and the sexual psychology of men. In case you are wondering, she is not a scientist. She's not a super model or a stripper or a dominatrix or a home-wrecker.
She a regular woman just like you... just a suburban mom, actually, who discovered that being sexy doesn't mean you have to be a slut or porn star. And she has cracked the secret code to the erotic minds of men.
Why did Felicity write The Language of Desire?
Felicity wrote it first for herself. It was her field journal of notes and discoveries as she experimented with her new-found knowledge about men. You see, research is how she dealt with her own humiliating and painful wake up call: when she found out she really was clueless about how to keep her man 100% satisfied and sexually focused on her.
Do you find it difficult keeping your boyfriend or husband focused on you or does he find other things to keep him entertained. Even during sex his mind seems to be on something else. It's true, his body is there with you, but his mind is on the other side of town.
Because there are so many women like you who yearn for that hot and spicy connection with your lover, that seemingly unattainable level of passion we see in Hollywood movies. But you have grown frustrated at what your sex life looks like in reality. I hear so often, "He pays more attention to his work, smart phone, or video games than to me!"
If you are like a lot of women, you believe that passion and intimacy exist, but you have no clue or idea how to easily tap into that primal part of his brain to make things happen. And you may also feel insecure about expressing your own raw sexuality.
Will he judge you? Will he reject you? Will he ever put down his stupid phone and actually see the woman you are inside?
If that sounds like you, do not feel ashamed. You are not alone. And it's all about to change!
**Now before you continue reading this Language of Desire review, I must warn you a head of time. This book is not for the faint in heart. What I mean by that is, this book contains hardcore graphics and explicit language.**
**If you aren't comfortable with that, it's totally cool. That's part of what she mean when she say this is all on your terms. Just because she get colorful with hear words to make a point doesn't mean you have to.**
"So please be forewarned that you'll be reading things meant for adult eyes only."
What is the Language Of Desire all about?
The Language of Desire is broken down into ten simple to read modules. Each module has some lessons and a worksheet or two to complete.
Module One: The Introduction
You have already here learned about who she is and why she wrote this :)
Module Two: Become a Sexual Superwoman
Learn to dump your fear over the "slut" label Determine your sexual boundaries Discover your growl-inducing Madonna Moan
Module Three: Loving Man's Best Friend (hint: it's not his dog)
Understand the secrets of his sex drive Learn why his penis is so important to him Rethink pornography (this one is controversial!) Learn The Porn Destroyer
Module Four: Brain Chemistry and Sex
Explore how desire and sex work with our primitive brain Using the potent Cuddle Hormone technique Have fun with Pavlov's Erection technique Learn the power of Sexual Singularity
Module Five: Create an Erotic Action Movie
Make him the star of your own sexy movie script Writing your script step by step Learn a variety of ways to share your movie with him
Module Six: Desire Intensifiers
Masterfully crank up the sexual heat Make him pant with desire with the Tease Intensifier Learn a blow job to blow his mind with the Oral Intensifier Snap "him" to attention with Verbal Viagra
Module Seven: For the Single Ladies
Use dirty talk effectively when dating Get him to commit with the Monogamous Male Maximizer How to go from Friend-Zone to Fantasy Girl
Module Eight: Getting Your Fantasies Met
Planting desire seeds Have dirty fun with The Lust Mirror technique Practically read his mind using Erotic Telepathy Make him your hero with the Romance Rotator Explore your kinky side with 50 Shades of Experimenting
Module Nine: When "Sex" Isn't Possible
Getting around life's sexual obstacle course Learn how to be dirty from a distance Use the No Touch Lay to keep things hot Learn about the Invisible Chastity Belt (it's more fun than it sounds)
Module Ten: Master Class
What if he's a cold fish Overcome objections Fine-tune your technique Plan out your dirty deeds
She wants you to think of Language of Desire as your own personal online class.
Every day you will receive an email from her with that day's lesson. Go ahead and make a folder in your inbox so you can keep everything in one easy-to-find place. And mark those emails from us on your safe list so they don't accidentally end up in your spam folder.
If you follow the program she has created, she can guarantee that you will discover your Inner Sexual Super Woman, increase the passionate and HOT connection you and your partner crave, and even achieve Ultimate Sex Goddess status with ease.
If I asked you to guess what his “secret” erogenous zone is, I bet you’d say his eyes. Or maybe his skin. Or maybe it’s the little area down near the family jewels called the perineum that you may have heard about.
Those are great guesses. However the most secret erogenous zone on a man is his MIND. Yes. And I do mean the one in his skull…not the little one in his pants!
Does that surprise you a little? It surprised me when I first figured this out!
It’s a widely-held belief that it’s women who get seduced by tapping into her imagination and emotions. And many people assume that men are built to just want sex at any time 24/7, there isn't a need to get “in the mood”.
So it comes as a surprise to many that men’s minds are highly erogenous. Certainly men’s sex drives and triggers are generally different than women’s, but you can provide him a heightened sensual and pleasurable experience by focusing some attention on his brain.
So, how do you do that exactly? Here are three easy ways:
1. Talk dirty to him
Dirty talk is one very effective way to arouse his mind. This can be a simple phrase like “I want you so badly right now” or something more explicit like describing what you want to do to him in detail. (FYI – in the program Language of Desire, I give you over 200+ dirty talk ideas). Whether you send this via text or whisper it in his ear, hearing you express your desire for him activates his brain into a heightened state of arousal.
2. Appreciate him
Focus on the things you appreciate about him and tell him. Let him know how much you value that he makes you feel safe. Or how hard he works to support your family. Or how you love that he can make you laugh. It’s easy to forget to compliment our partner.
When you give your man genuine appreciation, you feed his ego and self-esteem. And it increases the emotional connection he feels to you. Sure, this happens outside of the bedroom but you will see a direct result from it between the sheets. Because a man who feels appreciated also feels sexy.
3. Validate his sexual prowess
In a similar way, telling him how sexy you find him and how much he pleases you when it comes to sex activates one of the biggest triggers to his whole sex drive. Men are hard-wired to want to please a woman sexually.
Validating his ability to make you feel good satisfies him probably more than you might recognize. Give him encouragement by expressing your bliss during the act and definitely follow-up with a “this is what I loved best” highlight after. Just like you’d thank someone for treating you to a nice dinner, thank him for treating you to an amazing orgasm.
This is just a small example of the kind of information I share in my program Language of Desire.There are over 20 lessons chock-full of insights on his sex drive, how to trigger potent neurochemicals, and step-by-step instructions on having him feel like he’s won the sexual lottery with you.
It should come as no surprise that guys dig dirty talk. But have you ever considered the reasons why this form of sexual play is just so dang arousing to him? Let’s take a dive into why dirty talk drives him wild.
If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a sexy charge of excitement. And even if you aren't the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a naughty vixen gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him.
2. He feels like a sex-god
When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you F#$*king love what he’s doing to you. Your unbridled enthusiasm tells him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.
3. Your confidence attracts him
A woman who has the self-confidence to use dirty phrases to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Men are drawn to women who aren't afraid to express themselves sexually. And generally, your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!
4. It shows you are totally in the moment
Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. A quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it shows him that you are. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you serves to validate that he’s pleasing you.
All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive. Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty? Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone.
But don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life. In the program Language of Desire I teach you ways to get over any shyness you may feel and give you over 200 dirty phrases that you can fine-tune to suit your taste level.
Words that turn a man on trigger a specific response in him, both physically and emotionally. What matters to most guys is that his sexual prowess is validated. He wants to know that you love what he’s doing and that his masculinity is arousing you.
There is an almost universal male archetype of the strong sex-god rock star who is able to magically seduce and satisfy women. Yes, even your brainiac math whiz-type has a fantasy of being THAT guy. When you say these phrases, it’s like you’ve crawled right into his sexual imagination.
Here are a few phrases you can say to him can give him that feeling of sex-god rock star he craves.
All this information and more can be found in The Language Of Desire. If you want to learn how to talk dirty without feeling ashamed you should read this dirty talking guide.
Use these tips tonight on your man and watch him go crazy. This is just the tip of the iceberg and the best is yet to come.
Start by telling him:
You feel so incredible.
Or you can fill in the blank with any kind of adjective there: amazing, big, good, fantastic, hard, huge, awesome. Add in the f-word for a more explicit effect. You get the idea. When you are having intercourse, telling him just how great he feels to you is the ultimate compliment.
This validates his prowess and physicality in real-time. And you’ll learn in my program Language of Desire just how much importance most guys place on their penis.
Don’t stop!
It could be any command really: harder, right there, give it to me. Again, feel free to add in curse words and explicit language. Giving him a command during sex to keep doing exactly what he’s doing to you is confident and hot. It’s hot because it shows him just how much you are enjoying it. Men say the number one thing they love during sex is an enthusiastic partner!
I can’t get enough of you OR I’m so turned on by you.
This phrase speaks to his ability to arouse you. That he turns you into a sex-hungry vixen who wants his body all the time. Is that an exaggeration? Sure. But think about how often we unwittingly turn our partners away because we are tired, or have a headache, or just aren’t in the mood.
This doesn’t mean you have to be ready to go at it 24/7. However, when you feed his ego that he has the ability to drive you wild with desire you make him feel amazing, especially when you say this phrase outside of the bedroom. The idea that his woman is distracted in the middle of the day by sexy thoughts of him? Rawr.
If you want over 200+ ideas, phrases, and text messages to drive your man wild with desire for you, make sure to check out my new program, Language of Desire. I give you step by step instructions and tons of exact words to use to get exactly what you both want in and out of the bedroom.
Michael Webb's newest book to his ever-growing collection is a book called “Dirty Talk Secrets: the ultimate guide to sexy talk.”
But does this book really live up to the hype by teaching you how to talk dirty to your partner?
Let's find out…
Quite frankly, what would you want from a book like this? You'd want some ideas of what to say in bed, plus maybe some confidence-boosting advice.
And that's what you get.
The book starts out by explaining that dirty talk is, in fact, okay. Quoting a few passages from the bible and some fundamental 'why dirty talk is good' stuff.
The rest of the book is filled with all sorts of ideas of dirty phrases - ranging from calm to extreme. It also provides you with phone sex advice. Plus the email and text message phrases and ideas are a nice touch too.
However, maybe the most interesting and surprising part of the book is the last section in which a female writer provides her perspective on the topic in a very very interesting way. I'll leave this one as a surprise for you. :D
All in all, if you want to please your partner with the gift of dirty talk, then this is exactly what you need.
5 Mistakes That Partners Make When Trying To Dirty Talk
Okay, so you've agreed to give talking dirty a go to your partner. You may be a little nervous but you love them so much and only want to make them happy.
Like you, many people have the potential to fall into the trap of these 5 mistakes. Avoid these mistakes at all costs to save yourself the embarrassment of a dirty talk attempt gone horribly wrong…
Mistake 1: Emulating the Dirty Talk in Porn Films
A good deal of women are turned off by porn, so try not to emulate what you've seen during some of those movies. Lots of them have cheesy lines and actors that aren't up for academy awards for a very good reason.
Mistake 2: Making the Dirty Talk Unbelievable
Be aware that talking dirty can come across as very insincere. Telling your man, “your cock is so huge”, when in reality is only about 3 inches isn't going to make him suddenly feel like a stud. Likewise, telling her that that you love her massive tits when she is more “grape” than “grapefruit” in size could backfire.
Sure, indulge a little but don’t go completely overboard with your exaggeration. In fact, when your lover is overly conscious of his or her size, dirty talk can do amazing things to boost their confidence.
Tell the guy with the tiny penis that his cock rubs your clit so perfectly or whisper to your wife that you love being able to put her whole breast in your mouth. Dirty talk gives you the avenue to banish their insecurities and make them eager for more hot sex with you.
Mistake 3: Putting False Expectations in Their Heads
When you’re using dirty talk, don’t tell your partner about things you honestly have NO intentions of doing (ie. Threesomes, group sex, farm animals, sex in public, midgets, bondage, etc.) You may find that it triggers some new fantasies or embeds some new images in his or her mind that he or she could continue to ask you to talk about and then want to act them out in real life.
Mistake 4: Using Dirty Talk as the Sizzle Rather Than The Spice
Talking dirty can also become redundant (just like missionary sex day after day after day). Make sure that you don’t use the same phrases, over and over, or trust me, it will have the exact opposite effect and your partner might end up thinking, “Ok…I've heard that so many times… please shut up already.” ?
Mistake 5: Giving Up When It’s Not Turning Them On
Sometimes talking dirty can be more comical than erotic, depending on what is said and how it is said. It’s okay to laugh! But don’t give up. There’s actually a lot to learn! It’s not just the words you say!
I highly recommend that you check out Michael Webb's "Dirty Talk Secrets" site for lots of great examples that turn men on.
