Dirty Talk Secerts

5 Mistakes That Partners Make When Trying To Dirty Talk

Okay, so you've agreed to give talking dirty a go to your partner. You may be a little nervous but you love them so much and only want to make them happy.

Like you, many people have the potential to fall into the trap of these 5 mistakes. Avoid these mistakes at all costs to save yourself the embarrassment of a dirty talk attempt gone horribly wrong…


Mistake 1: Emulating the Dirty Talk in Porn Films

A good deal of women are turned off by porn, so try not to emulate what you've seen during some of those movies. Lots of them have cheesy lines and actors that aren't up for academy awards for a very good reason.

Mistake 2: Making the Dirty Talk Unbelievable

Be aware that talking dirty can come across as very insincere. Telling your man, “your cock is so huge”, when in reality is only about 3 inches isn't going to make him suddenly feel like a stud. Likewise, telling her that that you love her massive tits when she is more “grape” than “grapefruit” in size could backfire.

Sure, indulge a little but don’t go completely overboard with your exaggeration. In fact, when your lover is overly conscious of his or her size, dirty talk can do amazing things to boost their confidence.

Tell the guy with the tiny penis that his cock rubs your clit so perfectly or whisper to your wife that you love being able to put her whole breast in your mouth. Dirty talk gives you the avenue to banish their insecurities and make them eager for more hot sex with you.

Mistake 3: Putting False Expectations in Their Heads

When you’re using dirty talk, don’t tell your partner about things you honestly have NO intentions of doing (ie. Threesomes, group sex, farm animals, sex in public, midgets, bondage, etc.) You may find that it triggers some new fantasies or embeds some new images in his or her mind that he or she could continue to ask you to talk about and then want to act them out in real life.

Mistake 4: Using Dirty Talk as the Sizzle Rather Than The Spice

Talking dirty can also become redundant (just like missionary sex day after day after day). Make sure that you don’t use the same phrases, over and over, or trust me, it will have the exact opposite effect and your partner might end up thinking, “Ok…I've heard that so many times… please shut up already.” ?

Mistake 5: Giving Up When It’s Not Turning Them On

Sometimes talking dirty can be more comical than erotic, depending on what is said and how it is said. It’s okay to laugh! But don’t give up. There’s actually a lot to learn! It’s not just the words you say!

I highly recommend that you check out Michael Webb's "Dirty Talk Secrets" site for lots of great examples that turn men on.

How To Talk Dirty To A Guy On The Phone

Lets Get To Talking Dirty On The Phone

Learning how to talk dirty to a guy on the phone is good for your relationship. Every guy wants his woman to have a little freak in her. There is nothing wrong with phone sex as a matter of fact it is fun and rewarding. Fun because he didn't expect it and rewarding because he is ready to turn you out.

Talking dirty on the phone is a big business! Let’s face it; people are paying good money for it all the time. Out of all of the places that there are to talk dirty to your man, doing it on the phone has got to be one of the easiest. It’s always easier to do something when there is no face to face contact.

Release any inhibitions that you may be facing and get down to business with your man. Tell him that you are touching yourself, which is sure to get his motor going. Give him a few moans and a couple of whispers and remember that delivery is everything.

The more that he feeds into it, the more that you will feel comfortable with it and allow yourself to continue on in a natural manner. When it comes to referring to breasts and penises, use the words that you find most comfortable to you. There are a lot to choose from that’s for sure!

I hope these dirty talking examples will help when it comes to learning how to talk dirty to a guy on the phone.